After She Breaks Up With You She Might Not Be Looking For a Long Term Relationship

One thing a lot of guys fail to consider after a woman breaks up with you in a long term relationship is...

She might not be looking for a long term boyfriend after she ended the relationship with you.

In fact, in many ways it would be very unhealthy for her to jump from one Long term relationship directly into another one.

The reason why it is important that you understand this now is far too often instead of letting her go and moving on to better things some men choose to focus on who she is or might be dating and how her current partner isn't as good as you.

For the most part women tend to view men they would consider seeing in one of two categories; short term or long term.

Since it is safe to assume that you were a long term kind of guy (even if at the beginning she viewed you as a short term kind of guy) your comparisons are pretty much useless.

In order for short term relationships to work the only thing that is required are attraction and/or a strong desire to be with someone new; everything else is pretty much irrelevant.

Also, for those of you wondering if sex with her new man is better that what the two of you had?

In her mind the answer is more than likely yes; not because he really is rather because of the newness of him and the regularity of you.

Let's put it another way, imagine for some reason you foolishly decide to only eat your favorite food for an entire year and you stick with it somehow.

The first time you get the opportunity to eat something new it is going to taste delicious even if normally you might not like it.

No matter what, if you are at a point in your break up where you find you are comparing yourself to her new man.

Realize now that just like her you need to move on because no matter what spending time comparing yourself to others isn't going to help you get her back or get over her.

Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men who has a daily newsletter that provides you with a wealth of information on how to be more successful with women. You can sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men now.

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